I've been developing a list in my mind for the past few months. A different sort of list, not a list of things that stress me out, but a list of things that I can do to "de-stress" myself. Many things on this list are indulgances, but sometimes a little indulging in yourself can go a long way. When I step back and spend some time de-stressing then my problems often seem more manageble, and I'm able to think positively again instead of wallowing in worry.
Here's a list of ways I find to "de-stress":
- Bake ~ there's something about the smell of baked goods in the oven that brings a smile to my face.
- Walk away ~ I'm not saying that I run away from my problems, but sometimes I just need to WALK AWAY. For instance, when all four children are whining/crying/yelling at once...that's the time to walk away, count to ten and then come back. Or if there's a particularly hard problem I'm working on...walk away...come back later. Often times the solution is staring me in the face when I return.
- Crocheting ~ near a fire if possible, it's so calming for me.
- Make a list ~ it's funny, when I'm feeling like I have way too much to do it all seems much more manageble when I put it to paper.
- Get out of the house ~ when it's been a wild week I plan a night out: drinks with the ladies, dinner with my husband, or even just to grocery shop by myself. I deserve it.
- Turn up the music ~ loud music solves so many problems.
- Read a book ~ to myself or to the children
- Ignore the to-do list for a day and do something fun
- Spend an entire day on the to-do list ~ every once in a while I'll let the kids have an all day movie-marathon and I'll spend time focused on chores. And often-times I will enlist their help with the chores. It feels good to spend my day crossing things off.
- Walk in the woods
- Count my blessings ~ there are so many
How do you de-stress?
3 comments:
walk away from the situation, read a book, take a warm bubble bath while drinking hot tea or chai tea
Sometimes I'll go to another room and do "air punches" as fast as I can. I may look crazy, but no one is there to watch, and I feel much better after. I even taught my oldest to do this.
Sometimes I'll go to another room and do "air punches" as fast as I can. I may look crazy, but no one is there to watch, and I feel much better after. I even taught my oldest to do this.
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